Can’t Fall Back Asleep After Waking Up to Use the Bathroom? Try These 5 Hacks
Perhaps you've experienced some version of this scenario: Your bladder beckons in the middle of the night, dragging you from dreamland, and now you're finding it difficult to drift off again. But what do you do if you can't fall back asleep after waking up to pee?
First things first, rousing from a restful snooze is incredibly common. Most sleepers wake up an average of two to three times per night, and one-fifth of Americans have difficulty falling back asleep, according to Johns Hopkins Medicine.
And there are many reasons a person might awaken with the urge to pee specifically, says sleep specialist Michael Breus, PhD. Drinking caffeinated beverages or sipping alcohol too close to bedtime are common culprits: They're both mild diuretics, meaning they help the body get rid of extra fluids. (And indeed, sipping any fluids too close to bedtime could lead to nighttime awakenings due to a full bladder.)
But instead of tossing and turning for hours while shut-eye eludes you, try Breus's expert tips to help you cope with nighttime awakenings and fall back asleep faster.
"It would be great if people actually did this, but I honestly don't know a single person who doesn't go right for the clock," Breus says.
Still, obsessing over time as it ticks away is the worst thing you can do.
Here's why: Once you clock the clock, you'll start doing the mental math to figure out how many hours you have left before morning. This can make you upset or anxious, which increases your heart rate and blood pressure, making it even more difficult to fall back asleep, Breus says.
So while you may be tempted to peek at the clock, resist the urge.
"This is by far one of my favorite things to get people to try when lying awake in the middle of the night," Breus says.
As the name implies, progressive muscle relaxation is a technique that can ease muscle tension and help you relax.
Here's how to do it, according to Cleveland Clinic:
If you experience frequent urination at night and can't go back to sleep, try to achieve a peaceful state of slumber with a low and slow heart rate, Breus says.
That means you'll have to calm down your heart rate to fall back asleep, and deep breathing — like the 4-7-8 breathing method — will help you get there, he says.
Here are the basics of this breathing technique, according to Cleveland Clinic:
Distraction techniques are another helpful tool. Instead of focusing on falling asleep, Breus recommends doing a non-stimulating activity like listening to relaxing music or meditating.
One of his favorite distraction methods for quieting an overactive mind is counting backward from 300 by threes. "The task is complicated enough that it will keep your mind occupied, and it is so doggone boring you won't be able to think about anything stressful," Breus says.
Whatever you choose to do, just make sure that your exposure to light is minimal, he says. Once you flip on the lights, your brain will switch to morning mode and you'll become more alert (which is exactly the opposite of what you need to fall back asleep).
Because your heart rate quickens when you rise from bed (basically, your body thinks it's ready to wake up and start the day), this strategy should only be used as a last resort.
For example, if you've been lying in bed quietly for a while — say, a half hour or so — and you're still wide-awake feeling annoyed or frustrated, getting out of bed might be a better option, Breus says. Remember: Feeling stressed only elevates your heart rate, which is not conducive to sleep.
In this case, a change of scenery can help reset your brain and restore the connection between your bedroom and sleep, he says.
Again, keep the lights low and stick to non-stimulating activities (that means no scrolling on your phone). Once you start feeling drowsy, try to hit the hay again.
The above tricks don't just come in handy when you can't fall back asleep after waking up to pee. They can also help you drift off if you're awakened for other reasons.
Here are some of those common causes of sleep disturbance:
Did you wake up at 3 a.m. alert and ready to go? It might have something to do with your blood sugar.
When you sleep, your body is essentially fasting for eight-ish hours. But if your blood sugar drops and your brain believes you've run out of fuel, it'll start producing the stress hormone cortisol to kickstart the metabolic process, Breus says.
In other words, your body will feel hungry and wake you up to eat.
Snacking before sleep could help, although what you eat before bed matters. Some healthy options include Greek yogurt with sliced banana, cottage cheese on whole grain crackers, and a handful of almonds, according to Northwestern Medicine.
Waking up sweaty is another source of sleep disruption. For sound shut-eye, the optimum room temperature is approximately 60 and 67 degrees F, according to Cleveland Clinic. Anything that makes our body's thermometer rise (heavy blankets, for example) will rouse us from sleep.
Indeed, higher temps let the body know it's time to get up and move around, Breus says.
Overheating at night — and hot flashes in general — are especially common in people going through perimenopause. This surge in body heat, which happens as a response to a drop in estrogen, can sabotage your slumber, Breus says.
If you're awakened before the sun's up, it could be your body's natural rhythm.
"There is a natural rhythm to your core body temperature that makes you sleep a bit lighter between 2 and 3:30 in the morning, which is when most people tend to wake up," Breus says.
In this case, stick with the above strategies to get you back to dreamland ASAP.
If your sleep is disturbed so regularly that it interferes with everyday functioning, visit your doctor to determine if a sleep disorder like insomnia is to blame, advises Mayo Clinic.
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